when I applied to work as a merchandiser part time I don't think I had to give that many references. Weird.

I've known you for a while, though only online. If you need me to, maybe we can figure out some way to make that work. I see you as a person of integrity who can do whatever you decide you want to do.

I had the same problem and had to bother former bosses and coworkers who were kind about it but probably privately annoyed.

horribilis: You're so sweet to offer. It's just for a bartending job so I don't even know if they'd call. It's probably just standard on their application. Are you sure you don't mind?

I'm willing if you need it.

I hate the need for references. i just don't feel comfortable asking for them.