And then accuse others of bullying their good buddy? If I was that good buddy, I'd be sideways eyeing them right about now, as it's hardly the first time that they've posted secrets made about good buddy.

Okies had to read that twice but ya point there.

English please.

Let me take a stab at this. So people submit the secrets. I post the secrets. The owner of the site makes her opinion known and defends her friend. You have issue with that. Am I correct?

I have no issues. I simply stated that if it were me, I would probably be looking in a different direction with a "wtf?" look on my face. But like I also posted....

Obviously you do have an issue or you would not have made this plurk. Also to correct you Kess never accused anyone of bullying. Thats not a word her nor I throw around lightly.

I'm sure neither of you throw the word around at all. I've seen the posts on slsecrets before, you'dnever accuse anyone of bullying. MY apologies... but like I posted...

I post the secrets. I decide what gets posted or not. Kess owns the site. She leaves those decisions in my hands. But since its her site that she pays for she can decide she doesn't

like a secret and share her opinion on it. Its as simple as that. Nothing WTF about it really.

I simply stated my opinion of how I would react if I was in her shoes... though in all honesty, my conduct would not have led others to feel the need to make ANY secrets at all of that nature. But still...

It doesn't happen often but I honestly don't know what to say.

sooo your upset that lords posts the secrets about her friend and think she shouldn't?

really I like that she posts them despite the fact kess is her friend. it shows that she isn't favouring anyone. she will post what is submitted unless they break the rules

she doesn't not post just cos its her friend

I'm positive that my previous responses will suffice to explain my personal opinion of how I would feel/react if it were me. Feel free to read the above. Everyone has opinions, and everyone is entitled to them.

I can't imagine that there is anything I have said that needs further explanation. Please let me know if there is, I do try to be clear and concise.

Well i think what has confused me is that if she knew it was going to upset Kes and Brie and get people who are friends with Brie and Sands so riled up...

the whole things is very confusing.

Like I said, I was trying to put myself in her shoes. I would feel hurt and pissed off if it were me, in those circumstances. As Lourdes said and I quote "I post the secrets. I decide what gets posted of not."

I wish I could respect it if it's simply trying your best to be impartial, but at the expense of a friend's feelings? At the risk of causing or at least enabling so much petty drama? That I don't understand.