I've dated and slept with both men and women and enjoyed it, but sex is more or less at the bottom of my priority list. I was single for the entire first half of my 30s and missed the companionship but was truly fine with relying on my vibrator lol

biromantic also feels weird though because I'm not sure i could ever truly have entered a longterm committed relationship with a man, even before entering a longterm committed relationship with a woman

there are a lot of hot guys out there but I think I mostly just like looking at them

I am currently with the person I want to be with forever so none of this hugely matters, it's just an ongoing conversation I've been having with myself

tbh i usually just say queer