idk how to deal with my mom's houseless situation. she wants me to move in with her and I've told her no so many times. I'd like her to have a permanent living situation, but I cannot be in that situation. I've been on my own for 12 years and I don't want more religious trauma
I think the best you can do is offer her resources for getting a potential roommate on her own, and all the kind words you wish to give. You have no obligation to move in if you don't want to