you're allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, change your hairstyle, speak up more, listen to different music, make new friends, etc. we don't have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they won't like us we want to be.

truth is.. no matter how strong you are, at some point you will hit rock bottom, and it will feel like the world is collapsing beneath your feet, but darling, the only person who can get you back on the surface is YOURSELF.

people don't give themselves enough credit for overcoming things and getting better. like you made it this far. celebrate your strength.

becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth and decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you're damaging your mind, body and spirit.

some people just don't know how much motivation they give you by hating and watching everything you do.

without putting labels on us we could just love whenever we found love. without thinking about the new description that instantly pops up over our heads. we would be so much happier, right?

the reality is none of us are easy to be with. we all suffer from something. so when you meet  someone who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you, don't let lame shit like ego and pride ruin it.

straight life must be so boring. because everyone conforms

things to start implementing more to be the best you

I'm too busy that I don't have time to worry about whatever "that bitch" latest scare tactic happens to be.