*i feel like we need 2 get out more often. its not our sex life, it's just Brian just wants 2 sit around here playing this damn xbox

-and not do shit else w/ me. sometimes, he'll squeeze in going to parties or watching a movie here & there, BUT

Put your foot down!

Tell him we need to take atleast 1 day out of the wk & go out.

The beach or a park. you dont have to have money to go out

Anthony & I go out to the beach at night, sit on his car, stare at the stars, & just talk.

-i think it's time to annihilate that damn xbox. i feel like if it had a hole, he'd have fuck it...(blah)

Tell him how you feel

*fucked

THANK YOU! OMG, I don't try to make his behind spend cash. I wanted to go to the park yesterday, he told me "this is my day to relax"

"i've been working ALL week"

UH! Nigga you realxin' right now playing that damned game. UGH!

If he works all wk & has 2 days off. Let him relaxt one day & yall go out the next. Or let him relax in the day time & go out at night

Anthony & I go out to the movies every friday. But if money is tight we'll go out to those movie in a park & its free

They show old movies like beetlejuice or something but its 1 on 1 time

During the week, Brian comes home, eats dinner, plays the game till bedtime. Same routine all week long

A walk around the complex will do just fine when we have no gas.

Theres alot of things yall can do as long as hes willing to do it.

He goes to work @ 6:45AM every morning, get's off @ 3:15PM. From 3:30PM-12AM he's playing the game.

If I'm lucky his ass gets sick, then he has no choice but to lay in bed w/ me.

Do what I did to an ex of mine. I used to hide his controllers just so he can take me out

Talking dont work with most men. You gotta take it!

Standing infront of the tv, hiding controllers, unplugging the cord

ect..

....my mother is the bitch of bitches. She just told me to break the damn thing and act like I don't know what happened when he came home.

I'm not like her though. I try to work shit out all the time. Sometimes I think about cheating, but, how? And sometimes I think about leavin

But that would be stupid, cause his ass could solve everthing by doing what normal men do.

Then he'll throw it up in my face about me not having a jov so I don't know what it's like. But Allie has even agreed w// me saying-

-Me cleaning his house and cooking his food, along w/ taking care of his kids is a damn job.

It is a job. Girl Anthony & I go threw fights like that all the time. Im a SAHW. I cook, clean, do laundry, take care of

our dogs, ect. Just because I dont get paid does

*doesnt

make it a job. Dont break it because its gonna be worse

Dont cheat because your gonna feel bad & dont leave because you know u love him

If he aint giving you no act if hes treating you like you aint nothing but a slave to him then move on & do better

but if hes a good man & a terrific daddy then work it out.

If dealt with alot being with Anthony. baby momma, cheating, but we've gotten threw it

Our house if full of holes that we both punched in walls. But at the end of the day

we stick out because we love eachother.

So if it helps you breaking a glass or cursing him out than do it. But make sure he knows how u feel

i've dealt w/ cheating, (the shit tht comes w/ cheating) & i feel like he treats me like a damn slave.

he doesn't want me to go out to clubs or parties w/out him. BUT the catch is he really doesn't like going to clubs

or parties. i have to fight w/ him 2 do so.

sometimes I feel like going Lorena Bobbit on his ass. (I heard he got it sewn back on) so brian's in no real danger

sometimes i feel like he wants to be my father. my own damn daddy don't act like him

I know what your talking about. Anthony was the same way. But it took me having to leave him for him to realize it.

Maybe you gotta scare him a bit.

Idk what kind of man Brian is but it worked for Anthony

Your 18 & a mother of 2

You need to get out & enjoy being a teenager.

One night out with the girls isnt going to corrupt you