no, hell I don't share my first name. I am thinking about introducing myself though.

I avoid sharing it at all costs... though it wouldn't be hard to find out I think.

that's if some1 wanted to find out

That's true.

no, but I use the kids real names - local people know who we are....I guess it wouldn't be that hard.

I use real names as well and we live in a large enough city that people wouldn't recognize us (I think).