i hate to even ask, but we're in the worst way we've ever been. the car is officially set to be repo'd any time now, rent is short, bills are fucked, and i need help more than ever
already put the whole thing out on other places like tumblr but tldr we're losing the only car we have and we're looking at losing our home because we can't make rent again, p much shit is fucked and not okay and i despise having to ask again but we NEED help
I can't do more than try to boost this where I can, I could try making a Facebook post if you're okay with that?
4Romance: you caring and sharing means the world tbh!! But that'd be incredible if you could, honestly. Normally if say not to put yourself out but we're not doing okay rn
4Romance: thank you so much, I truly appreciate it
boosting for you, good luck!
If it helps, this place aids people like you a lot
r/Assistance
check the side subreddits too!!
Onomatophobia: oh my God, thank you so much! I'm making an account and looking into it all right now! I truly appreciate it, thank you!!!
UPDATE: I have an interview later today, hopefully it goes well, but even if hired this second I won't see a check for 1-3 weeks depending on pay-periods and paydays, still freaking out. The Reddit subs require an established account/karma and I never really used Reddit so I don't qualify... just. all over panicking and hoping to get through this interview
Interview went good! Pending the background check, I should get this job! Just gotta wait for that now, was told it'll be 5-7 days but! Finally some decent news!
I'm gonna bump again because we have a 3 day grace period on our rent and we're still extremely short. The new job is pending but should be a sure thing, but it'll take a few days to land and the check will be at least a week after that- we wont make rent.
I'm on a miniscule fixed income unfortunately, but I would absolutely say talk to your landlord. they don't want to do eviction paperwork, lose a month of rent pay, or pay to flip your apartment for the next guy either
if you can pay part of it, especially if you offer to do it by money order, they are likely to work with you
I would call your car loan company also
it costs all of these folks money to do paperwork and/or start collections and companies will very likely work with you if you ask
KabochaKitsune: i'll try calling, but both rent and car payments have been short and/or late quite a few times unfortunately. we've been hit with a lot lately, and we haven't always been able to scrap together bill money, but i'll reach out. the property manager hasn't returned any calls or emails all week, but we're planning to go down in person today
it's all been pretty overwhelming, but i'm gonna try pleading with them at least for the car and rent because we need transportation for work and kids' school and obv need somewhere to live, i'm just so tired of groveling and begging and struggling, life shouldn't be this hard jfc
KabochaKitsune: and thank you for the support and tips, right now just knowing i'm not drowning alone means the world, we're just in an awful way again, worse than ever, and i don't know what to do, but knowing people give a fuck does help a lot, thank you <3
Good job getting that interview <3 thinking of you lots
4Romance: thank you, hon! Also we were able to get an extension for the rent until Friday, the 7th. Sill a couple hundred shirt, but it's a slim chance to somehow try and get it together. The loan company for the car still won't return my calls though so that's still overdue and Not Great...
Thank you for the update hon
Sent some money your way, wish it was more. Lots of hugs
4Romance: Thank you endlessly! Anything helps! Friday is coming up quick and I'm freaking out, going down to the car loan place today since they won't respond back still ;;
Got ahold of the car loan people, they won't give a full extension but instead of paying the full amount they're letting us do a smaller one this month and a bigger one next month- which is great, but we're still $150 short for it. Tomorrow's rent, and we're about the same short for it still too. We're gonna just give em what we do have and hope we don't get
kicked out for it, I don't know what the hell else to do and I'm just simply Not Okay
God I am so sorry this is truly hellish
Make a gofundme or something maybe? Easier for people to share around
4Romance: that's not a bad idea, I think I might, I'm only a couple hundred shirt but but if these interviews don't turn into something soon we're majorly fucked. Then you for all the support, you have no idea how much I appreciate you
update! i just got called for a second interview later today, all the fingers crossed