3: He's a bit constipated about love, I think so it's gonna take him a minute or or so. (weeks maybe) Lust is easy to identify for him, love, not so much.
9: Touch! carefully petting hair to not muss hairdos, if hair is loose, he plays with it. Likes to sit close pressing his thigh against hers while carrying on the most mundane convo
13: He'd like a son or two for the estate (where he's a duke or duke in waiting) and daughters. He's an only child and there aren't many in his generation, so he'd like a handful of children. In magicverse/fae, he'd be happy with at least one, but would like more depending on his lady's wishes