So apparently my dad has cancer.

They haven't pinned down the stage yet, though.

Oh god, hon.

Very much hoping the stage is still at 'treatable'!

Yeah

For, like, multiple reasons? Obviously I would prefer my father to not die yet since I don't hate him. Lord knows he made mistakes, but I don't hate him.

But usually I handle people dying kind of probably disturbing to other people-ly well.

I'm very very worried about my sibs, though. Because they're both disability cases still living with Dad. My sister has a degenerative hypermobility disease and my brother is Aspie.

understandable

oh no, I'm so sorry

I hope it's a very early stage and very treatable

It's just...not great. Happy holidays, ig!

And if anything happens to Dad, I can't exactly count on Mom to help sort things out because she's a, in bad health, b, living pretty far away now, and c, irresponsible af.

Ooooof. >.<

I hope it's treatable, as well

thx everyone

oh no, I'm so sorry. Wishing him a good prognosis and an easy course of treatment ;;