there is a blogger (none of you) who I had in the past done tons of work for...

she switched platforms a couple of times...asked me to help out with new site...

then, totally blew me off, and went on her own...I think she thinks I'm mad at her (totally not) I just kept marching with other clients...

That's confusing.

She has two new sites now. She SO needs custom header help! I would love to just say "You have a bird on your head..."

I am telling you, the sites are a great idea. Something she really needs to put a best foot forward...

Which is not possible with the grubby headers she has

I need to just shake my head and slowly back away

tell me to back away...

Cyn - we've had this conversation before! Why waste your time and energy on someone who doesn't appreciate your valuable services?

That's like asking people to be mean to you or treat you like crap. You have plenty of people who need/want your help

And if you don't - I will keep refering people

dude, walk away

not your problem, yo

...unless I'm the person you're talking about ... then.....

CHiC, no way in the world it is you

You all are right...walking away. CHiC, and Burgh, and AFF...thanks for referring folks!

walk away - let people suck on their own

woman, you gotta keep personal feelings out of it. There's no point in letting things get to you if you can't control them.

"let people suck on their own" I want to make this my mantra

walk away.