this isn't at any one person in general, or thing just a frustration with being in SL today...

As someone who's white IRL I absolutely don't know enough about Black culture or style. I try to be respectful in my own presentation though.

ShaggyZed: we've had this discussion before, and you do great! And honestly, what you do I hold no animosity or even grief! It's... whatn it's performative I guess or saying things in a way that clearly excludes the other... I dunno. Could just be me in my feels.