I woke up really fucking sore but I was determined to have a good day. Stopped and got dutch bros on my way into work and everything. Then my dad decided to be a dick and keep vague booking about boyfriend and I and now my anxiety is through the roof.
good gym sore has just turned into grumpy and in pain
What's his issue
did you see my plurk about the fight him and my boyfriend had at Christmas?
Maybe? I have the memory of a goldfish
they got into an actual physical fight the day after Christmas because dad was being an asshole all week he was staying with us and so boyfriend and I got into an argument because we were both frustrated
and my dad barged into our room with a "you don't talk to my daughter like that" and tried to choke out the boyfriend and threatened to kill him / have him killed
so once I recovered from the panic attack this caused I told my dad he had to leave because uh, unacceptable
so he's been posting all this vague bullshit on Facebook since then and today it was "Ladies, if your man buys you a present but uses your money to buy it, is it really a gift? Asking for a friend...."
other highlights include "A real man does not make excuses" and screencaps from the godfather "you don't go against the family" scene
..................
uh...
sounds like it's time to go low-contact with him, or even no-contact until he gets his shit together
The present one is making me twich
And seconding Percy
oh I am very low contact
he is convinced that the boyfriend is totally fine and healthy and faking all of his injuries and heath issues to take advantage of me
but he posts this shit on Facebook and it really upsets the boyfriend because he's already upset about not being able to work
I'm so sorry for boyfriend, he doesn't deserve this
and neither should you, esp when it's for both of your safety both physically and mentally.
yeah. the boyfriend wants me to say something to him to get him to stop but like.... I know it's useless. I asked my mom to talk to him, so we'll see.