Mr M woke me up at 1:45am full on shouting like he was fending off a bear attack and then went peacefully back to deep sleep while I lay there for 10 minutes trying not to have a heart attack and I wonder why I don’t sleep well.
The sleep app he uses shows a period of rem and then deep sleep at the time mine shows awake but he doesn’t remember a dream last night. It happens often, and if I do wake him he murmurs something about spiders before drifting off again