And I have to remind myself that Marsie loves to sleep under my chin at night, and Thor loves nothing more than to be rolled with the lint roller and goes a little bit loopy when I do that for him, and Loki tilts his head up and closes his eyes when I go to give him a little scritch and Cleo chirrups and trembles when I pet her and I think they are fine.

I'm sure your kitties know how loved they are.

maybe I'm being a bit hormonal and projecting! Too many feels

If it helps, I wonder that sometimes about my babies. I always wonder if I'm treating them well enough or if there's something more they need. But they're fat and playful and purr the moment they see us. I think they don't require too much to be happy.

I just want them to have the longest, happiest and most stress free lives.

I don't get people who think cats are aloof and anti social. These guys follow us everywhere. I currently have 4 carefree snoozing floofs all around my feet.

I had never spent time with a really sweet cat until I got older

Now I have like the cuddliest cat ever who wants to snuggle 24/7

last night in our tiny gaming room (2 big computer console setups in the smallest bedroom in our house that is also a storage room) we had all 4 of them. Big house, all 6 of us crammed into the smallest room.

Like yes. Aloof, antisocial apex predator my butt.

this is what an apex predator looks like

that tunnel sure is doomed. It never had a chance

we have one of them too. Mars uses it to sneak up on his big brothers. It's so noisy tho, not a great ninja prop.