is that normal

normal as in common, yes
healthy, not so much

yeah, i'm just staring at 10+ days tag in the inbox here going "damn should i reply to them but what if they don't reply back"

Tags are like presents, everyone loves seeing them

So don't you worry

I say as I am slow but looking at our tags lovingly

yeah, it's definitely a common feeling. for me, it's a guilt thing and i think it is for a lot of other people too

i just make myself tag anyway unless i really can't think of anything. if my thread partner responds, they respond, if they don't, they don't. there will be more opportunities for threads in the future