well its wrong that i assume u should be using my coping mechanisms

THEYRE MINE BITCH

but i can totally understand where this feeling comes from

"THEYRE MINE BITCH" is such a fuckin mood

a professor i looked up to once told me "i'm here to listen to you, not to tell you what to do. what advice i give you is a guideline for you to follow if it fits your situation" or something like that

so personally i try to give advice but never say something that u should do. it's not on u that ppl get hurt you dont give their try and proven method a whirl

but if u do ever need to vomit some feelings

eyo

look at my cowboy emotes

I just dont want to make the day worse for the people I love and care about by making them see things my way when I'm on mental red alert. I literally cannot accept positive remarks in any way shape or form, and I feel like people making an effort is wasted time for them

overthinking overthinking overthinking

of course. would starting with a "hey, i dont want advice. just listen to me?" would that help?

or is it just like a

talking in general makes me feel like i'm a burden

the second one

hm.. but, maybe you need to work on the idea that ppl do wanna listen to you? as hard a concept as it is to be ok with