Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T22:44:55.000Z
[ncod] I feel like today is an important day for me to say: ace people are a welcome part of the community, including heteroromantic asexuals and aromantic heterosexuals, and bi/pan people in a relationship with a different gender are as well. And I believe any attempt to exclude a group from the community should be viewed with suspicion.
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Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T22:45:59.000Z
This includes other identities that I didn’t name here, but these are two of the ones that I am especially aware get attacked by exclusionists.
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T22:47:38.000Z
Also to keep with the theme of the day, I’m trans and my sexuality is [data corrupted]. (By which I mean figuring that out is currently on the back burner when it comes to my priorities.) I’d generally say I’m queer.
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T22:51:28.000Z
Last year, I made a private-locked plurk where I rambled about this at length,
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Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T22:53:57.000Z
but the short version is that I ended up going back into the closet for years based on reading a transmedicalist definition of how one “had to be” to be trans even though, now that I am allowing myself to explore who I am, I find that I fit the description they used for who could be trans almost exactly.
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T22:56:19.000Z
And, like, when people try to elaborate on “(x) group isn’t really queer/LGBTQIA+,” it’s so far always looked an awful lot like what the people who convinced me that I wasn’t “trans enough” and I would make it harder on “real” trans people if I claimed otherwise said to me.
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T22:57:02.000Z
So, like, fuck that.
A healer (but-)
2019-10-11T23:08:27.000Z
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Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T23:17:53.000Z
A healer (but-)
2019-10-11T23:22:01.000Z
Muse says Ace Rights
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T23:23:37.000Z
Heck yeah!
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T23:29:10.000Z
I’m sad that it took this long, but I’m glad I was able to tell you. You are always welcome in my community and I know a lot of queer people who would agree.
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T23:32:07.000Z
Anytime.
Necromantic
2019-10-11T23:33:37.000Z
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-11T23:36:04.000Z
pollуαηηα
2019-10-12T16:15:00.000Z
thanks yosie
Yobousimusphere
2019-10-12T16:22:59.000Z
I'm only where I am now thanks to the help of supportive people in my life, so I'm happy to do this little thing to help support others.
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