You know, you worry about all the stuff like "TEEN PREGNANCY" and "DRUGS" and all that shit, but it turns out most of the stress comes from shit like them suddenly announcing at dinner that they hate chicken and that it's not fair that you never give them any say in what we're going to eat. Or like....needing to be SUPER INDULGENT about them being snarky

at school when it turns out they fucked up and kicked off at a teacher. ARGH

o o f

so pretty much the part where you actually do the dirty work to make them be a good person

bunbunsie: Yeah, the stuff my mother didn't bother with when she lived with her, so now I have to start the work on a 15 year old who's been spiled and never needed to face any consequences all her life.

she's going to b better because of you