Sorry to read this, hope it's just coincidence and not the new place causing it, as that would really suck

i have no idea what to do because we have no other options right now till atleast the summer and no funds from this move for a while to even get like air purifiers or a vaccum or what ever might help. ive never had to tackle anything like this before.

I know when I move house my breathing gets a bit wheezy for a few days and then I take antihistamines and eventually habituate. Maybe ask the Dr. if this is likely? So sorry you're having to go through this

Syncophie: thank you. there is so much going on in my bubble right now its overwhelming one thing after another

i think we are going to rent a carpet washer and try a few things out to see if its allergens and crud :\ but this all has to be done after we drive my stepson down to his mother for march break and our house sale closes just before that im done adulting for now pls, time for not adult anymore for a bit pls

can you look on fb marketplace or offerup, etc for someone selling an air purifier for cheap?

You have so much on your plate at the moment, and moving is so so hard, not surprised you're done adulting for now!