One thing is he's just very immature. We get into fights because on his phone I go through his messages (Yes, I should not but I was suspicious because he went through my phone the other week for some reason) and I find him talking about our relationship issues with his family and found his mom saying to move on from me.

I got very upset seeing these text messages from his mom sister and friends and felt natural boundaries were disrespected. He left some things at my house so he came to pick them up and he wound up hysterically crying for two hours in my dining room. He fell to the floor he was so weak and crying and the whole time he was telling me he wanted to be with me

then 20 minutes later he said it's time to move on. Now he is texting me he needs to go to the hospital, he's hyperventilating, etc. I know he has anxiety but he always gets like this when we get into an altercation. I am unsure how to react in this situation or to literally just ignore him and move on..

The mom texted me after (I was so close to her) that she's really fond of me and loves me, etc. But the messages don't add up. It's really weird that he got his mom involved in this, but I believe he's really immature and it makes my head go crazy.

Tough to say. Sounds a lot like what’s going on with me and dom. Not one single person on his side like me. They say to move on, I’m ugly and I’m using him yada yada. He’s cut his entire family off for us to work. Sounds like if he really wants to be with you he’d give his family somewhat of an ultimatum. Tell them he’s thankful for their opinions but in the

End it’s his future and he’s the one at the end of the day that is happy to be with you and vise Versa if he can’t put his foot down for his family then he isn’t completely serious in making this for the long term.

Pm me if you wanna talk

Scary familiar situation, gonna text you

You shouldn’t be going through his messages. That’s a violation of his privacy. What’s different between him discussing things with people he trusts and you posting this?

If you can’t trust him you should move on.

because they know us in real life, clearly will side with him, etc. i personally get uncomfortable when his mother knows all about our fights and such.

but if youre going through each others phonrs theres lack of trust. trust is the Foundation of any relationship. I'm with Gracie oh this. its no different than you talking to plurk.if you don't trust him it may be time to move on