It's like my best friends game too

But they know I'm in multiple games already

and would assume I am dropping their game in favor of the others and more time

which is a correct assumption

You're right, it's just..

I dont want to get a big head about it but I am literally the only thing carrying that game

and it's very exhausting for me but I know the game makes my friend happy. but I really dislike his dm style and the game itself. everyone else is essentially a new player besides me

I mean honestly just say you're in a lot of games right now and you need to drop one, hahaha

it sounds like it's getting to be a chore

HAHA I'm here 4 u

yeah like, hey, I'm doing a lot of social stuff right now and I have to cut back, sorry, also works

I know, it's just going to be tough no matter what. I know my friend very well and no matter what he will take it personally. He will understand, but regardless he will still be hurt

Yeah but, and this is a hard lesson to learn, you're not responsible for his feelings

If he's hurt then that's on him

It's completely reasonable to say no to anyone and anything at any time.

You can't manage his feelings for him

THIS FEELS LIKE BREAKING UP A LOT

IT'S OKAY TO ACT ON YOUR OWN NEEDS, MY DUDE

hell Din and I cancel shit on each other all the time and the whole conversation is like

"hey I can't today" "oh okay man hope you're alright"

that is how adults do it

well cancelling plans is one thing, this feels bigger. or at least I'm making it out to be

but you guys are right and have put this into perspective for me

Nah it comes up in RP when we drop games

it's common to feel guilty about pulling off the band-aid, but like

if your heart's not in it, you can't force it

Maybe you can be in a game with him another time that isn't.... him running it, lol, or isn't that group

You're not lacking for D&D opportunities so don't kill yourself over one

tell him you have to commit to your DB FighterZ training and don't have time for these foolish games anymore

I AM Frieza

desire to become yellow intensifies

say YOUR GAMES WACK AND I'M NOT INTO DOPE

kickflips and pulls down shades

your game sucks and nobody roleplays except me

manuals out the door

also for real guys this helped me so much

yes we are here for sick beats and adivce

And if it helps, I felt this way about the Shadowrun game I left that I was hating--I was really concerned about it failing without me. But the truth was it's fine and the people who like it are still doing it

Meanwhile I have time for games and things I wanna do