double plurk but hey, I forgot to plurk for a few days. it's going to be a not so great week. got a call that one of the ladies in the church, who we're probably closest to (cus she does visitations with hubby and her brother would watch Bratling when I wasn't here and they had to visit the hospitals etc) found her brother dead on the couch yesterday morning
so hubby is having to help with funeral preparations, plus he really liked the guy. AND we're going to have to tell Bratling 
so we've been sort of busy with that since yesterday morning. I hadn't met him yet since I'm back and forth so much
so anyway, yeah.
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yeah, we're most worried about telling the kidlet.
oh jeez
hugs
we have to tell her tonight because there's a church council meeting tomorrow night and she was supposed to go over and visit with him, during