[family whining] still low-key gutted by the reminder that my relationship with my mom will always be hindered by the cultural & generational disparity of my expecting to be on an equal footing & her expecting complete deference. 🙃👌
She’s flat-out said she will never apologize for anything she says or does to me no matter how much I say it hurts me, because that’s a mother’s right!
mothers aren't supposed to be like that?? 🤦🏼♀️
Why. WHY.
It’s very, very much how she was raised and what she understands to be normal. 
:')