that's not a bad idea. my main issue is that when i don't have plans with other people i feel really guilty for isolating myself, even though i... really enjoy isolating myself
also sometimes it's just... really, really nice to have unscheduled time. as much as I like spending time with people, if everything is scheduled I get drained and miserable and you don't have to apologize for not making plans, tbh.
thanks all (and the name thing was it made me go back to my original one for some reason but then it magically fixed itself with the power of my complaining about it)