and an artist I like basically commented with "I trust people to not be literally satan or abusers, just like I trust most of you not to be murderers or sadists for liking canons with a lot of murder"
at least the arguments were straight up YOUR SHIP IS BAD instead of trying to hide it under a veneer of "you're an actual irl pedophile/abuser if you enjoy this ship"
that or "you're only allowed to like this ship if you're a (insert thing) survivor trying to cope" because everyone should totally feel the need to reveal their entire past history just because they want to see fictional characters kiss