I'm AMAB, but I identify as... uh. Hmm.

Sometimes I use genderqueer, sometimes just like, a series of question marks..

What I feel like, and would prefer to present as, changes often, sometimes multiple times per day.

Sometimes Female, sometimes just... nothing?

I present as male just about any time I go in public, but I guess that's mostly out of comfort/safety than anything.

And sometimes I do feel male. Those are good days, when I go to work in somethign that feels right.

Although I have honestly stopped myself in front of public bathrooms, momentarily confused as to which door to use.

This, even though I present male in public 99% of the time, and have literally never used anything but the male bathroom in public.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Beyond an inconsistent and poorly defined gender, I'm panromantic, and the gender thing makes sexuality labels confusing but I am attracted to ladies (regardless of bits).

I accept the possibility of being sexually attracted to a dude, but outside of rare instances of drawn art it hasn't happened for me yet.

A swinging gender with more or less constant female attraction is weird. I did once have someone dub me a "part time lesbian". While that label amuses me, it does sound more like a specific variety of bi.

Oh, and I'm Polyamorous. I'm currently in one relationship, and I'm open to others forming but I'm not actively looking at the moment.

Currently closeted with family. Not because it would actually be a problem, but because it's both none of their business and they'd probably be embarrassing as hell.

Honestly, I might tell them someday, depending on circumstances.

I'm sorta closeted with some of my friends. This is because I can't remember who I've told, and at this point I'm too embarrassed about making a big deal out of it only to find I've already told them.

That I will probably change, and soon. Actually... I have the medium to do so (we all use a discord server to stay in touch), and it is the day for this...

(I say one minute after it's no longer the day for it D'oh OH WELL I CAN DO IT ANYWAY)

oh, and pronouns! The only pronoun requirements that make sense to me is to say that you should call me whatever pronoun you think works at that moment. It seems best that way.