I self-define as pan, and in rl I'd say I'm equally attracted to everyone :/

but I find that in rp land I tend to have way less ships with ladies and I wonder why that is?

....fair

but I feel like I've also played characters all over the sexuality spectrum

and found it really difficult to ship with girls!!!

resigns myself to pining ig

I'm lesbian and I have this issue... I have no issue playing the dude or the girl in het ships but lesbian ships are so hard

I also find lesbian ships really hard!! what makes then hard for you?

and i think i know why it is, at least from the mediums i play

there's less of an emphasis on female relationships/friendships in general

and

a lot of anime/video game content that has that is geared towards a male gaze and is really gross

i love shipping ladies but dwrp is a goddamn sausage fest icly so that doesnt help

do you feel like its just hard to fond female characters willing to build those connections with other female characters?

I def struggled with that playing a canonly queer girl, but I have intimate friendships left right and centre with dudes when playing a dude

DEFINITELY

im thinking about sheena and korra and yeah. I had issues.

would you say that as a result you end up playing more guys because you get that emotional connection there?

Erin did you have "better luck" with certain lady personalities than others?

LMAO oh god its so true tho

yeah i ended up playing more guys because of a couple things... they had more emphasis in jrpgs which i really like and uh, all the canon gay in the things i like, also dudes.

I don't play exclusively for shipping tho

like im playing kanda who is canon gay but i have no intention of shipping atm

well, canon bi, w/e. BUT HE HAS ... one lady who has spoken to him, ever.... so it's already shaking out again.

gazes into the sun

definitely more deep and meaningful guy cr than lady

I play some girls but I rarely ship with them compared to my m/m characters

Which I've actually figured is because of fear of judgement as well as the fact that I've gotten bashed for shipping them with other characters

oh that's so sad ;;

Thaaaaaaaaaaaat sucks

I'm always aware of ship bashing too thanks to some certain people in paradisa way back when lol.

I don't really play to ship myself, in that- I like 700years of emotional buildup ig

so my perspective is probably a little skewed

yeah it takes a long fucking time for me too. my friends call me disney because handholding is basically all you get in a year.

RIP.

SAME LMAO

the first time the hold hands

clutches pearls

Oh my god, it slays me

YES

this lmao. though I've gotten bashed for cross-canon ships after a whole year of development (18 MONTHS TO A FIRST KISS, SRS)

so I just avoid public shipping in general and save it for museboxes

no one said a thing to my face the last time i did one, thank god.

but i was so terrified

i spent the whole time just vibrating waiting for the shoe to drop

that's so sad ;;

you can see why I was ABSOLUTELY EAGER for kisses in our log if that was the only kissing we were gonna get I was jumping on it

ive played ff, mm, and mf.

i dont rp girls as much as i rp guys though and i prefer rping gay shit...than het shit.. but i love touching the pussy

so ill do mf...

if that mkaes sense..

we should do ff.