Shit hit the fan with life, to put it bluntly. Hubs had been going back and forth with wanting to split up and all the stress made me lose interest in doing anything. I've hardly knit a thing in 2 years!
I finally got to the point that I couldn't take it anymore and told him to make a choice now. He chose to stay and then I told him if he pulled this crap again, I was done. I am not doing it anymore.
Things have been good for a few months now but, I am still being..... cauchious. Its always when I think things are fine again that he decides it isn't
Normally I wouldn't have stuck around through all this but we have kids and I didn't want to put them through the stress of a divorce if I can help it. But then I realized that I deserve to be happy too. So, ya