There's a post I occasionally see on tumblr thats like "the older i get the more i realize that attraction has to do with personality and not looks" and I think about it a lot
bc it's so true for me now
i used to care about chiselled bodies or flat bellies or whatever but i dont really give a shit anymore
it's so true tho. like physically hot strangers only ever inspire brainless lust from me, which is w/e, but my heart's not in it until someone is cute in their personality
and even for people i wouldn't have thought twice about their body when i first met them, once my heart is in everything about them bc much more attractive