I just need time.

Sometimes??? I'd say anytime it's okay to mourn.!

It is perfectly okay! We each have our own time lines.

To everything, there is a season. And you must find your own time and place.

It's part of the process let me know if there's any way I can help.

Of course it is

Flyfisher is right. Each and every one of us has our own timeline.

here whenever you need

Grieve when it's appropriate for you. Emotions are part of our makeup, and serve a purpose. When you feel sad, go with that. Indulge it. Wallow in it, if that feels right. And when you're through

with it, when you've had the time you need, move on. Subsequent joy will be all the sweeter. And wallow in that, too.

johndiii: well said

johndiii: thanks! I'm wallowing... I just want to fast forward a few months when I fell better.

MelissaeKae: You are allowed to wallow. Sometimes, things happen that really, really suck. If you don't wallow, you may never get past them.

MelissaeKae: Get yourself some good hugs.