i know, but i just don't like it how some people take it too far (i.e. kahit yung boys na mismo nagsabi otherwise, ipipilit pa rin nila yung opposite). so i'd rather just stop it altogether at least on my end.
i never said other people should, but it's for my own peace of mind as well since i'll be good with whatever they are or choose to be as long as it won't be harmful to them.