She's an old friend of mine from high school, was just wondering if she could use me as a reference for another client. I'm more than happy to help, but so awkward to have to be like 'ooooh, we're

not together anymore.'

Man that's rough I'm sorry. Well from what I saw the pics were nice! At least you can still give a reference heh

yeah. ref good. But that does suck. ;-; I still get annoyed when he posts on Sarah's fb page or Kimmie's. I still haven't forgiven him even if you guys have. He still sucks buckets in my eyes.

but those questions are always hard blah.

I don't know if "forgive" is even a right term. But yeah.i am surprised he still comments on our stuff at all.

haha hmmm tolerate him? I dunno. I just defrended him on FB and wiped my hands of him. It annoys me when he comments on Kimmie's stuff. like.. UG.. no

I get it that he and Sarah are still talking. (Though i don't think he deserves to get to keep her in his life) but Kimmie pretty much disliked him a lot. So i find it funny/annoying that he comments on her

stuff

probably just because they work together ish?

I'm sure That's the only reason. And she is just being nice. But it still annoys me! I just don't like him. Grumps

hahaha kimmie. you're a hero! good for you for staying professional though.

Yeah 'forgive' isn't quite right. I'm civil with him because it's a lot easier this way. Honestly we've spent too much of our lives together to just drop it 100%... We grew up together. But I haven't

Forgiven him for what he did, probably never will. But living life with that much hate in your heart is really hard and draining

It always bugs me when he comments on Kim's stuff too LOL

The thing about him is that he literally disappeared for like 6-8 months, until things blew over enough for him to make a triumphant return and not suffer any hard feelings or consequences

It's not right but he's always been a massive coward like that. Like how I had to be the one to tell our friends what had happened.

And it drives me absolutely bonkers when he chimes in on stuff like nothing ever happened >__<

Plus I don't want to be excluded by the rest of my friends because I don't want to be around them. And I say them because it's not Matt and his girlfriend, they're a "we" and come as a set

Group gatherings and parties? She's there. He had the nerve to ask me after the last party if my dear friend Cristie had given his girl "an honest chance"

And I was like, wtf, why does it matter if she did or didn't. She cheated on her bf and left him just the same way you did to me, it's not like she's some poor innocent soul who doesn't deserve

To be judged or disliked by people who saw me at my worst and were there for me

Not to mention SHE STARTED IT.

You don't tell your friend's husamd that you love him. YOU DONT.

good lord. so he shows up at social gatherings with a NEW gf as if nothing happened and expects everyone to welcome him with open arms? eep

Oh man. Even in my group of friends that would be a no go. And out of line to be asking you. It's up to your friend to choose if she wants

To give his gf a chance or not. She has every right not to. There is no rule that we have to like everyone we are forced to hangout with.

And Yeah I mean..I don't hate him. I don't even think about him till he comments. Just annoys me that he acts like Nothing happened.

Like. Yeah we will be civil, but that doesn't mean we are friends anymore. Type of thing. Anyways. I'm Sorry you had to get asked that

And are put in that situation Sarah. Are you still seeing that guy you were seeing?

LOL KIM

You don't have to respond to his comments on FB.

HAHAHAHA omg

A few days after, someone else who had been at the wedding asked the same thing, and I saw my old boss the other day and she told me to say hi to him

BLAHHHH I just want to forget about it

men are such fucking assholes man. some men

This would be a great time to move to another city where no one knows you but ..no. you're not allowed to move. <3