parenting is much easier when you don't fucking nitpick EVERYTHING! Let them wash dishes at their own speed. Let them sing songs however they want. Just back the fuck off and it all becomes much easier.
So hard to remember that sometimes. Yesterday Maggie washed dishes & it took so long I sent Arlington in to help. But you're so right. And it's the only way they learn and get better at it!!
It's hard for me to understand Natasha because it is so easy for me to be hands off. I know I need to have some empathy and be patient blah blah blah but I just get so tired of hearing her correct the children.