what happened? you ok?

....sigh

cheer up!! 加油加油!!

just that everything turn out wasnt i expected, thought i done enough, cared about her,even delivered soups , chocolates at the middle night, but clear;y that wasnt good enough

theres a old saying "nice guy always finish last" now i get it, thats the fact

im not gonna be Mr nice guy from now on

Awwwww I'm so sorry to hear that. From what it seems to me, she doesn't deserve your kindness/nice-ness.

I truly believe that a person who doesn't know how to cherish and be thankful; does not deserve us pouring our hearts out. Even after everything being done, if you still get hurt.. it is time to walk away!

there is nothig wrong with being nice etc and I think what you did for her is extremely sweet! no one has done that kinda of things for me.

but no matter what you do, if that person doesn't appreciate it, it's not worth it. the person who really cares will show you how much you mean to her and treat you the same way you treat her. Stay strong!

but i...still like her always do and always will .. whats wrong with me

NOTHING is wrong with you! you have to know that! nothing is wrong! and if you know that you will always like her, and you feel like she is the one; then as your friend, I would encourage you not to give up.

True love worth the fight! (lol it's cheesy I know but I am a strong believer in that) However, if all you get in return is hurtful feelings and pain; I do not want to see you to put yourself in that position.

I'm saying this from my own experience cause I don't want anyone I know to go through what I went through.. Do you remember my ex? He was actually constantly cheating on me and no one supported our relationship

I've only told one person before about this but the fact is; he constantly abused me emotionally; sometimes physically as well (but they weren't serious enough to leave marks/scars) and dumped me for other girl

He came back to me again and again too. Saying he is sorry etc but the same things happened repeatedly. I did everything I possibly could;cook for him, pay for his groceries, buy him food/gifts, made chocolate.

Everything, you name it and I have done them. Even when one of my best friends caught him cheating with another girl at the university carpark.. (he denied it of course) I still accepeted his 'escuse'.

It was until end of last year/start of the year, he moved in with that girl and decided that they will move to Canada together after uni. I realised, this is not what relationship is about.

When I was with him, I felt worthless and so much pain. He constantly told me I look ugly in a shirt I wear, I need to diet/shave/exercise/pay for his things etc. I did everything, All I got in return was PAIN.

I don't want you to be in pain or feel that you are not good enough! YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY! and having someone who likes you back just the way you care about her!!!

The strong feelings you have for her is admiring!! ^ ^ and like I said, it's worth the fight if you believe!but I hope you know that you should feel happy too! and deserve someone who treats you the same!

shit im so sorry to hear that .. didnt know that he is such a duchebag ..u deserve a better person to be honest !

and thanks for listen to me really appreciate it

thanks steven no worries! i've got your back; that's what friends are for! i know it can be hard to talk to someone about things like this but if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to talk to me! ^^