yawn. I stayed up late last night with my daughter working on her Maya language and culture project. She waited until two days before to start it! But she got it done and is presenting it today.
My son hates school. He hides when it's time to read, he guesses at words, he inverts his letters all the time. It affects his self-esteem at school which is what really concerns me.
The fact that you understand he might have an immediate reaction plus the actual rational basis for it (when he may not be able to articulate it, at first) will definitely help, IMO
It's also hard for us guys who've been programmed that income == success to NOT get angry (because we odn't process fear/uncertainty/doubt well) as our default reaction.