maybe the phrase i'm looking for is grinds my gears

anyway, i keep thinking "oh well they don't know, i should explain it to them nicely but there's just so much"

but why should i have to explain nicely, can't "no they are not the same" be good enough

i don't want to write up a whole essay just believe me and look it up or something if you want more info

and the attitude that men have to apologize for existing is really annoying and guilt-trippy

i mean when men say taht

don't take it personally dude you're not evil in living form just for being a dude, it's just a systematic thing ya feel me

It doesn't take much. Any man who opens his eyes for two seconds should be able to see the imbalance that happens every day.

And once you become aware of it.. there is no unseeing it, truly.