He's an arse?

But he's not...anymore..

Cause he really didn't seem to have much regard for you and how you were feeling.

Yes he is, he's just hiding it now

Just stop.

He's milking this.

He isnt being an ass because he isnt with you and he is realising what he is missing out on, but you dont want that. You want someone who is going to be not an ass all the time

He may not be acting like an arse now. But the reasons things ended won't go away. They won't. You deserve someone who treats you like gold, and you will find them. They are not him./

because you're worth more and to any feel less would only hurt yourself.

to feel any*.

We're really good friends.. and from all angles, this should technically work. But it didn't. However, I miss his cuddles and his affection lots.

I bet he misses being wanted and complimented.

I've been tempted even to say, look, let's not be "in a relationship" but give me my cuddles. lol!

don't say that...please

Noooo don't do it

We have such amazing chemistry, people must look at us like we'd make perfection as a couple and if he tried again.. I will need to be kicked in the butt to remind me why that would be the worst idea. Grr!

Sometimes the best friends make the worst boyfriends

You know what also makes good chemistry? Nitroglycerin lol

liquidhell:

Ha!

as does cholorine gas

^that, and there's a reason, or several that he's an ex

and... he might be a much better friend than a boyfriend. Maybe that is all he really can manage.. and if you enjoy him as a friend.. cool, but don't keep trying for more or you will have more hurt