Or in the window for typing up a plurk, click on the padlock and you can choose whether you want your Plurk to go public, only to your (entire) friendslist, or to one or more people whose usernames you enter.
it's not a bad idea to link to their name in your plurk, just to be sure they see it. there's no particular notice you get if someone makes a PP, only if you are mentioned in [any] plurk
I just sent you a PP with no mention of your name. Let me know if you received notification. I think that it's configurable, so you may have turned it off.
I keep plurk up while doing homework..I find being able to rantplurk over my fellow students...er...'tidbits' of intelligence helps get me through without pulling all my hair out.