just give her a listening ear

and just parrot back what she says to her

=)

naokikotoko: 所以就是不要勸？聽就是了？其實我是覺得女生有點無理取鬧，結婚前也發生過類似的事情～哎喲，我好怕這些問題

Umi_okok: yea, try to avoid telling her what to do... chances are she is the type who doesn't want to be responsible for her actions and hence, blame others

呃..

martika: 呃..?

Umi_okok: 介入這種事，很容易裡外不是人，到時沒離婚，妳們卻連朋友都不是了！只要傾聽，別出主意。

aprillin0507: 謝謝，我知道怎麼處理了