because of going back to work...i am going to bed much earlier then before ( before 9 pm)..my husband goes to bed around 10-11 pm..and he complains that I go to bed too early so that he cannot have fun with me.
sigh...sometimes, i feel men are really from different planet...he knows that i have to pump during the nights...why he cannot be a bit more considerable??
I know what you feel. But your husband is important, too. Try not to make him feel ignored. Maybe one way is to find something he can enjoy himself after you go to bed.