Helpmy cousin broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years about 4 months ago. she said she didn't think they would last and that she fell out of love with him. she is young and i get that this does happen..however
She keeps taking his calls, contacting him on Facebook, meeting for lunch or coffee, and right now she is seeing a movie with him... he keeps contacting her as well.
the problem i have with it is she does these things then she feels guilty and feels like she is leading him on and she gets upset and cries and has anxiety. I told her i would take some separation for awhile.
but she keeps going back. she said there are boundaries but i have to say i doubt that cause they were together 3 years i am sure they kiss and hug to greet each other. i just don't know how to address this
I was for awhile saying he was to blame for calling her all the time and trying to get back into her life. but now it is both of them and she is leading him on. he was a good bf to her and he doesn't deserve