men, if a women says she wont do b.j's would you divorce her or dump her? is it that serious?
Depends -- I would have the green light to refuse to do things I would rather not..
My good college friend doesn't do BJ's with her man and he's okay with it because they've been together for over a year
eh, depends... it's not a deal breaker, but it's possibly a bit of a red flag
it can be a very good indication that she's not really.... adventurous, shall we say? and i can't do vanilla... not for long, anyways