I'm sorry but when you tag my "people who deny misandry are misandrists" with 'oh no da poor mensz!!!1!' and claim that men are discriminated against for other reasons without stating them.

you are probably going to lose this text duel

am I being reasonable and/or sensible?

It's actually two people and they're quite civil. We're discussing it in private asks now. I still disagree with them and I failed to clarify that misandry doesn't have the same cultural weight as misogyny.

But overall I think I've learned a lot about their perspective and it's been constructive. I'll definitely examine mine to see what should be modified.