[Star Trek] Oh gods, getting into an argument with a bro-fan about Spock/Kirk. This can only end badly.
How do you "not count" Spock as a committed relationship of Kirk's?
It's not the 1960s. Fan studies is quite well established. Roddenberry himself has commented on the pairing.
Just call it a bromance. Penis Americans frequently have trouble with actual male subtext, but they can handle bromances.
I will accept nothing less than an acknowledgement of Gay Space Marriage