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that have changed you, and now is affecting the way you behave and act as a grown person... but it is not a plesant thing to be reminded of

would you want to know what it is?

Oh absolutely I'd want to know.

Yeah..I'd want to know...to deal with it and try to move on.

there are of cases of so called professionals that have acted very badly and actually fabricated blocked memories

i would be very skeptic of such dyagnosis

www.plurk.com/ElyHynes yeah i know about what you are saying but this is not on of those cases

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like every other therapist tells you that you are blocking something from your childhood

i would still ask a second or third opinion

lol been thro 15 opinions

Do you the various doctors think you're ready to know/face it?

lol idk that's i'm intersted to know ppls opinions if they'd want to know or rather put it in the past and move on

If you've seen 15 therapists and the majority have told you that you're blocking something, you probably are. i'd want to know just so i

could deal with it and get my life together, if what i was blocking was in fact the reason my life wasn't working out.

not really 15 but i've been to alot lol i'm just tired of my life

yes. I would want to remember. History repeats itseld unless you remember and understand

IF someone tried to tell me that, i'd want my money back. I remember my childhood

I've never been to a therapist, but if i did, i'd want to discuss the problems i have "now" and not dig up stuff I don't "remember"

that´s my take tbh only so much you can dig back when the beahviours you need to change are happening now

childhood influences a lot on how we react to things but we have the ability to relearn actions and change them

tbh as children, our memories aren't that reliable, and it's also from the perspective of a child

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unless you know for sure something awful did happen

(this is just my opinion, im not educated on any of this stuff!) i just think that you would know yourself best, and your history

the thing with me is that digging in my past never did good for me, i'm not for that at all. but being told yet again that that memory i

blocked that one thing is the base of alot of that things that hold me down and my me the fucked humanbeing i am today idk what to do

How do they discover that about you? Hypnosis? Or is there a chunk of time missing?

no just by stuff i said

hmm... sorry to bring this up, but I'm a therapist irl... and I do know for a fact things of our past even childhood can affect the way we

are/act nowadays. Sometimes it's not in bad ways, some other times it is

I'd want to know but i wouldn't expect that knowing would magically fix everything

I agree with gogo that those memories are from the perspective of a child, but then again, everytime we remmeber something, we add

a different meaning

that is why things that happen to you when you are a child might not have bad effects then, but they start having bad effects in your

adolescence, when you add new significations to your life history

Basic childhood development. What happens to us shape us, especially during childhood and adolescence...whether good or for bad

I would want to know so that I can learn to deal with the present. If several unrelated therapists have made the connection, I'd take it

Into serious consideration

this question is always major mind fuckery for me.. I've had this asked of me and it almost makes you think all these bad things

((hugss)) Nova