whats going on?

I posted a vent...

I dk , he just keeps saying how depressed he is...and it makes me sad.

oh no =/

does he regret joining the army?

Its not just one day its every day since he left. It would be nice if he could give me some support too...

Yeah, sorta but I think its the training situation, not so much the army.

ahh gotcha

yea, gotta love those phone calls that are all about HIM and his training

no how was your day? or how are you holding up

Exactly, and I keep trying to explain and he gets mad and says "your always making me feel worse"

And that just sets me off because I spend EVERY day trying to make him feel better and the one day I try to stand up for what I want

and all of a sudden I am ALWAYS making him feel worse??

ugh

he needs to man the fuck up. What you;re doing isn't easy either!! And you don't whine all the time

your situation is what you make of it!

training is very temporary

sadly it's not so easy to tell him that lol

Exactly. I told him finally that he chooses to be 'depressed' or 'happy' and if he chooses to be depressed thats fine but its his

own decision and he can't blame anyone else!

I understand it sucks...but couldn't he just say "Hey, hows my son?" just once??

I understand!!

We had some days like that while John was at training

Its hard for me to go to bed mad..but if I try to text him again and talk to him I'll probably just make it worse

that's not fair to you

He needs to figure out how to deal with the situation better

I have a feeling nothing will be better until training is over...56 days to go...

ugh

I hope it improves then

Me too Thanks for listening though.

anytime