you until now because they "Weren't sure they could trust you not to judge them." when you have always been openly forgiving of them in the

past, and everyone else you know.

...Eurgh. That does seem a bit.... unfair to you.

probably wouldn't be happy, personally.

some people can be more private about bigger things like that... i honestly don't know how many people i would tell if it were me.

for what though? if it's for something not related to you and shameful, maybe they wouldn't want to