doesn't (usually) consider herself trans, but when she seeks emotional comfort she almost always finds herself in the boys clothing she owns
can't quite figure out in her head why that is.
Alive!
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"boys" clothing is more comfortable. And in our society only boys are allowed to be comfortable.
I don't agree that only boys are allowed to be comfortable ALL the time. It's just that society believes they should see the best
looking women when those women are in the public light.
and in order for most women to look 'the best', it requires them to wear uncomfortable clothes and such. Unfortunate.
But on topic again, Anon, you wear whatever you want. Reach out to your closest friends for some comfort as well.
Almost anyone that answers these Plurk Secret plurks is friendly enough to talk to.
Alive!
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except me. I am generally very UNfriendly.
muthafuckintrex
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I am definitely a cis male, but I identify as female in a handful of situations. I find it easier to think of "male" and "female" as two-
muthafuckintrex
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-averages of behaviour. Not all males act 100% male and visa versa. So if you find some more masculine traits or behaviours more-
muthafuckintrex
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-comfortable, then that's just your few percent either way that defines you as different to all the other not-quite-cis-not-quite-trans.