no recollection of this event at all, but does remember that the play wrestling suddenly stopped

he feels terrible, and never did anything like it to anyone else

doesn't know what to feel

in shock

how you found this out

he told me

he followed this story with how attracted to my he is and how i have so many qualities he looks for in a woman

ok that last bit makes it a bit...creepier

agrees

isn't entirely sure she knows how to be around him without wearing a burqua or something now

and it is kind of upsetting because we got really close lately and I considered him a really good friend

but time is the least of the things i'll need before that can be true again

I know this migh tbe very awkward, but you should probably tell a parent about this or something

It's possible he's done something to someone else too :/

believes him when he says he din't

doesn't want to put him in jail or on a sex offender registry or something

which makes talking to a professional tricky too because they have to report certain things to the authoritie

doesn't really want to start this huge family drama

Even if he didn't, it's a very serious thing, and you don't deserve to go through the awkwardness you're feeling now

You should get a family member who'll support you

yeah, I wish he didn't feel the need to "apologize"

Especially if he's being creepy now. You shouldn't have to put up with that

probably going to try a mental health professional first

They can probably give you good advice

As long as you're not on your own

told a few close friends as well

Good. Make sure you have plenty of support

it's interesting... you went through life not remembering and growing up fine, but now that you know it's a big burden for you to overcome

after sleeping on it, it's more about how I can never look at him the same way again

When you don't remember stuff and you're told about it, to me, it's almost like it happened to a different person

But dealing with him now has to be horrible even if you don't remember that

you over 18? If you are, and he can't hurt you anymore, then you can tell professional b/c it's up to you to report it.

They only have to report it if you're currently in danger. And even then, not always if you're not a minor.

over 18. How do you know they can't report it anymore?

thought the laws for mandated reporting varied from state to state.

if you're concerned about him getting in trouble, i would talk to your therapist about it. they'll tell you if they have to report it.

agrees that asking them is the best bet.